Sunday, November 09, 2008

Relationships

To know what it's like to be in a relationship with another person, it takes you to
  1. Say Yes to the relationship
  2. Step into the "relationship circle"
Understanding it as an outsider outside the circle is possible, but never will you really have a taste of its joy, kodak moments, tears, hurt and even heartbreak that comes along with.

A relationship with God is not much different. We can stand by as spectators, watch and admire what is inside the "relationship circle" and yet not know what experiencing a relationship with God really is like. Stories of miracles happening, lives touched all seem pretty amazing but all these stays as that.

The steps are the same. A relationship with God requires you to
  1. Say Yes to the relationship
  2. Step into the "relationship circle"
Saying yes is the easier bit, but sadly enough, many of us after saying Yes still stand at the edge of the circle, occasionally reaching a left foot or right hand into the "relationship circle". What's worse is that you may be comfortably standing at the edge of the circle for years and don't even realize so.

Being at the edge is not bad, but it just means that you're missing out - missing out on experiencing what a relationship with God has to offer first hand. Big big difference from a second hand experience~

Maybe you're at that stage where you've said Yes to God and yet after so many years of saying Yes, you still have never experienced God in one way or another. I'm not talking about the experiences of God of other people, I'm talking about YOU experiencing Him for yourself. If that's you, time to look down and check whether you're standing at the edge of the "relationship circle".

I urge you, friends, to commit your whole self into the "relationship circle" when it comes to God and let Him be in control. Why?? and What for??? you may ask.

Here's what I think. Boy-girl relationships can promise you the whole wide world and yet most of the time leave you in shattered pieces, sometimes even more broken than you think you could ever be. A Godly relationship may seem unimportant at this stage of life yet it is one that picks up the shattered pieces of your life and in turn promises you new life -an eternal one in heaven.

God did not promised that along with having a relationship with God is a smooth and problem free life ahead. What He has promised is that everything that is happening is in His plans and when tough times come, we can rely on Him.

Footprints in the Sand

One night I dreamed I was walking
Along the beach with the Lord

Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky
In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand

Sometimes there were two sets of footprints
Other times there were one set of footprints

This bothered me because I noticed that
During the low periods of my life when I was

Suffering from anguish, sorrow and defeat
I could only see one set of footprints

So I said to the Lord, " You promised me,
Lord that if I followed You,
You would walk with me always."

But I noticed that during the most trying periods
Of my life there had only been
One set of prints in the sand

Why, when I needed you most
You have not been there for me

The Lord replied, "My precious, precious child,
I love you and I would never leave you.

During your times of trial and suffering,
when you see only one set of footprints
It was then that I carried you."


Experience God's goodness yourself and be sure to want to come back and have more of it. The joy along with it is simply indescribable (agree with William) and maybe thats why missionaries can work way past their retirement age and yet want to continue with more (agrees with Nana).

Why not give it a go?

"Taste and see that the LORD is good.
Blessed is the person who takes refuge in him."
Psalm 34:8

Signin off: Love love

18 comments:

SyL Regina said...

Nice post you got there. Hmmm.. that's a lot of kind of relationships but i think relationship with God plays an important role in our life :)

Esther's Blog said...

lols..just suddenly occur to me in church today how similar a BGR n God relationship is..except one is far better! Hahaaa Agree agree.

:: keanie-weanie :: said...

A relationship IS a relationship. I think I told you before right on the phone? That principles that encompass a human relationship is the same throughout any relationship be it with a Divine Being or a mortal man/woman.

If we love God as much as you(not you as in YOU but you as in general) love that guy that you have a crush on, or that girl that is so awesome, it's phenomenal. But we're humans and incapable of doing that 24-7. That's why we have to ask for forgiveness.

Esther's Blog said...

Hmmmm...it should be the other way round shudn it..the Ideal case lah. Can't remember u telling me that leh. *sigh sigh* I guess the beauty of it is that God loves us even when we're so... whats the word? Unlovable? Its moree like a one sided thing a lot of times eh. God loving us and us not doing da same back. Wud have ran as far as I cud if it was a human relationship :P

:: keanie-weanie :: said...

I leave it in this way because it's easier for us to understand the depth and the meaning of a relationship between us humans rather than for us to relate ourselves to God, naturally.

Esther's Blog said...

True true.. (finally..somethin dat we both agree on and not debate for hrs :P) Mr Keane Eziel, whens ur exams finishing again?

:: keanie-weanie :: said...

21st Nov. We should spend time debating more..but not on personal issues like..AUSTRALIA..but more of the things of God..at least that'll build us up..rather than our differences in preference of where to study and live...

Esther's Blog said...

Haha..im sure Australia will pop up somewher along the lines :) Ok..I have 4 days to chat with u before my parents come over :)

:: keanie-weanie :: said...

19-23? sweet! I'll be around then..where'll you be staying?

OCF Curtin said...

Har...19-24 to be exact. I'll be staying in Perth alright!!! Hahaa :) But all my wee early mornings are free to chat mar :P I better go stock up on phone cards! Hahaaaa My parents are comin to Perth on the 24th :)

:: keanie-weanie :: said...

why are you signed on as OCF thing..

anyways...i thought you're coming to KL?

Esther's Blog said...

Haha..I din realized..Was updating da OCF blog ma..lols..lets just assume thats me k :) Pretend u see Esther Siong instead of ocf curtin *angelic look*

KL's on the 19th December la :) WHen u goin to Penang?

:: keanie-weanie :: said...

End of Dec...what 19-24 were you talking about?

How long would you be in KL..if you say one night i'll kill you..

Esther's Blog said...

Slightly longer than one night i believe :) AIyo u..confused moo la.. I finish exmas 13 Nov. U finish 21st Nov. My parents come 24th Nov. Leaves us 4 days dat we can tok tok. Atas itu (on top of that) Buahahahaaaaa my BM's powderful! I'll be popping by in Kl on the 19th Dec.wait my bad..14th Dec. I think flyin off 19th again. Not sure... :P

:: keanie-weanie :: said...

you just left me with more confusion..can clear up your travel dates and let me know the finalized itinerary?

Esther's Blog said...

Buahahaaaa..Nvm Im confused myself too. When u goin Penang?

:: keanie-weanie :: said...

end of dec...

Esther's Blog said...

Oh man...Im like signed in as OCF Curtin again..will delete that. Okay, so when u comin back to kampung Miri? No time soon rite??